14 June, 2013

A Birthday Letter To A Lovely Sister :)

Dearest sister,

Wish you a very happy birthday! :)

I hope you have a wonderful day showered with love and all good things that the world can offer.

There’s this quote that I recently read and I felt that it resonated with us:

“For there is no friend like a sister
In calm or stormy weather; 
To cheer one on the tedious way, 
To fetch one if one goes astray,
To lift one if one totters down, 
To strengthen whilst one stands” 
― Christina Rossetti

In the short time that we have known each other, you have inspired me like none other. You’ve helped me pick pieces up and forced me to move forward, even when failure broke me apart. You taught me so many lessons that today, I feel strong enough to face life’s battles. Sometimes, when things in life go wrong, that is all we need to do, revisit the lessons we have learned. All the problems you are facing are like clouds that are blocking the clear sky, tackle the clouds - it might rain and pour down with problems - but always remember that the sun will appear. The Lord knows how much we can take and how many problems we are capable of facing and believe that he will never burden us with more than we can handle.

They say love makes life worth living. It is indeed true and I learnt that from you. There is nothing that love cannot accomplish; there is nothing that love cannot crack open. Love might shatter our comfort zones, but it will always take us to deeper levels within ourselves. It will force us to expand our boundaries and explore new things. On this new journey of life that you are about to embark, I hope you take along lots of love.

Security is just an illusion. We feel that we are secure when things that we need are within our reach, when we are able to satisfy our wants and when life is at a pace we can handle. But when we do new things, there is no security. When Neil Armstrong went to the moon, what proof did he have that he would return safe? When Edmund Hillary climbed Mount Everest, what did he carry along for security? These great men broke out of their comfort zones and went ahead to do things they didn’t need to do. Just like how you went out your way to help a woman in distress, just how you gave your hand when the world ignored my cries for help, you made me feel secure. You’ve done great things, break the shackles and fulfill your dreams. They’re waiting for you.

Hope for better things. Hope is one thing that can bring great changes to a person’s life. Hope that your health will be better and hope that the bugs that are bothering you will be squashed. When we hope, the world aspires and comes together to make it true. Optimism doesn’t fool us that things are better, optimism makes us see things in a new light and that light helps us build our world in the way we want it.

Keep faith and pray everyday. The Lord will always watch us and never, ever let us down. He might give us a few setbacks to humble us, a few successes when he knows we’ve done our best and failures when we need to work harder. The Lord only intends to make us better people and only wants to help us live our lives to the best we can, atleast I believe so and I hope you will too. Never loose faith, for that is where life came from. Our parents had faith that we would be born hale and healthy with two hands, two legs and a heart that will pump efficiently.

You know, in life, there are very few people who really ask us how we are. When people ask it as a formality, we have all the right in the world to pretend that we’re perfect. But when it comes from the heart, when the intention to know how you are is genuine, let the layers fade. Let the reality come out. People say that we need to pretend, as we cannot go around sharing our sorrows. Maybe it’s true; maybe it’s not. I haven’t learnt that yet. But I know that I’m willing to take away a part of your pain by listening to the troubles you have. A problem shared is like a burden lifted off the shoulder, it gets halved. So share not only your joys, but your sorrows too. A joy when shared will multiply and a sorrow? When it shared, it will divide.

I have always admired how you have defined yourself. You’re an investment banker, you’re a daughter, a wife, a sister, a friend and I’m sure you play so many more roles in the lives of people around you. But you have always been ‘love’ to me. I love how you have no layers to yourself. I love that innocence, that warmth and that smile that you seem to carry. I love the sweet tune of your voice whenever you talk. Please never change that no matter how stern the world seems on changing it; be yourself. You’re too beautiful a person to turn into a replica of crazy mud-heads.

I don’t know if there’s too much advice in this letter, but I hope you get the message. I care for you and would only wish you the best. I hope your spirits are high and awakened. I hope that you pop open a bottle of champagne (if you don’t drink, even water would do!), raise a toast to yourself, face life in the eye and say, “I’m ready, bring it on! Show me what you’ve got!” For that’s how strong you are. Put on the best version of yourself and have a great birthday!! :)

Tons of tight hugs, warm cuddles and lots of love,


  1. This was adorable. Do I even need to say that? :D

    I loved the genuity, your love, your care, and most importantly, the words!
    Undoubtedly,a beautiful b'day letter. :)

    P.S.: Are you really a 19 yr old? I mean, just look at the depth of your talks! :D

    1. Thank you so much Srish!! :)

      Haha I get asked that so much, yes I'm a 19 year old :D!

  2. Happy birthday to your sis'. Oh! I don't have a sister and I miss it the most. I wish I also had one. Loving and genuine words. :)

    1. Thank you! :) Sisters are real bundles of joy!

  3. Such a lucky girl to have a sister like you! Wonderfully sweet and 'dil se' message! Loved it.

    Wishing your sister a very very Happy Birthday! May God fulfill all you guys' wishes! Have fun! :D

    1. Thank you so much for such a sweet comment!! :)

  4. Wow wow wow wow wow... this was super awesome!

    Touchwood... this letter is so beautiful. Your sis is really lucky!!!

    And yes like Srishti even I am wondering are you really 19 year old???

    Loads of love and HUGS to you dear <3

    1. Thank you so much Me!! Oh yes, I'm 19 and I'm sure my childishness proves it ;)

      Lots of hugs and kisses :)

  5. Awww this is a very sweet post. You're so lucky to have a sibling like Aekey... Wow...

    Cheers to you xxx
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  6. This is such a nice and heartwarming birthday messages... She's one lucky sister :)

    - Hazel

  7. Superbbbb,,,,,,,,, how actually u do all this in the age of 19.. you are truly awesome dear..

    1. Thank you very much anonymous! Your compliment is much appreciated!! :)

  8. you are an excellent writer and I felt the emotions and sincerity in your letter. I have learned a lot in your letter and I would like to make a letter to my bestfriend somewhat like what you have expressed. God bless you.

    1. Thank you so much! :) I hope your best friend loved your letter :) GBU!

  9. A birthday is such a special day for the celebrant that is why I make sure I am able to send my Birthday greetings to loved ones and friends. Please allow me to include some of you Birthday quotes, messages and greetings to my Pinterest board. It’s good to know I can easily find nice Happy birthday pictures when I needed to send them. Thank you!

  10. Friends are like brothers and sister found outside our home :D so these heartfelt message and birthday wishes for friend like this will surely make them happy. I myself can't let their big day pass without my warm greetings. Thanks for sharing your sweetness. :)
    God bless always!

  11. Wow, that's one of the best and most thoughtful birthday wishes I have read for a sister and I really like you for that. Happy Birthday to your lovely sister. Have fun!

  12. Awww, this is one of the sweetest birthday messages for sister that I have ever read! Love the bond and closeness. So sweet. Hugs for both of you. God bless!

  13. Happy birthday to her. Give her what she really deserve like my brother do for me
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